Health Care?
Here is a true story
of something that happened to me last week. I tell you this
story because I was so enraged and disgusted at what happened,
that I thought I would share it, if for no other reason than
to let out my frustrations. Since my kids were born they have
been taken care of by a prominent Children’s clinic here
in Nashville. We are now going on thirteen years with no problems
whatsoever. The doctors and everyone that works there have always
treated my kids with loving care. Which makes what happened
last week even harder to take. Well, the way I have my bills
set up to be paid is that they go to my business manager’s
office simply to ensure that they get paid promptly as I am
always traveling. So, last week my oldest woke up in the middle
of the night with a very painful headache. And I mean painful.
I was very close to calling an ambulance but opted to let him
fall asleep and take him to his doctor the next day if the headache
persisted. Morning came around and off to school we went. Around
noon I get a call from the school telling me that my son’s
headache is back and he is in obvious pain. Naturally, I rush
out of the house to pick him up and drive him to his doctor.
Here is where this story gets ugly.
I call the clinic and the conversation goes something like this…
“Hi, this is Raul Malo, my son is experiencing really
painful headaches and I need to bring him in…”
(receptionist)”Sir, we have an outstanding bill that needs
to be taken care of before we can see him”.
(Me)”All our bills go to my business manager and they
pay them, never mind that I was there a month ago with my other
son and nobody said anything about this.”
After she told me that the bills had been going to my house
I (again) told her that they should be going to my business
manager’s office. After all they had been going there
for about twelve years now. She still insisted that the bill
be paid immediately or they would not see my son. So she proceeds
to put the office manager on the phone with me who basically
tells me the same thing…”We need to have this bill
taken care of before we can see him”…even though
I explained to her that the bills were going to the wrong place.
Mind you, we are only talking about $400.00!! For four hundred
dollars they were not going to see my son who had been going
there since he was born! At this point in time I have had it.
And I went on to tell this woman that she was exactly what was
wrong with this country and with the planet.
I hung up the phone and picked up my son at school. He was feeling
a little better and because of this situation with the clinic
we went home. There was no way I was taking him there now. Worse
case, I would have taken him to the emergency room at Vanderbilt.
As soon as we got home I called up the clinic with my credit
card, paid the bill and told the office manager to enjoy her
$400.00. And that from this point on none of my kids were stepping
foot in that clinic again. Now, what gets me throughout all
this is that neither of them asked what was wrong with my son.
But they sure have all the nice “Christian” sayings
throughout the whole office about taking care of the “needy”
and the “poor”…blah, blah, blah…Empty
words from empty people, that’s what I say…
Here’s the funny thing about all this…earlier in
the week I had the same situation with my veterinarian where
the bills were going to the wrong place, etc…I had to
get my puppy neutered and the other one had to have shots. They
told me of my bill. I said it needed to go to my business manager’s.
They said “no problem, Mr. Malo, we’ll see you later”.
WOW! Wouldn’t it be nice to get that same kind of treatment
for your children?
All the best, RM
Obama,
Obama…
February 26th, 2008
Well here goes…I don’t know if this will help or
not, (I know it won’t hurt, besides Ihave way too much
time on my hands) so here goes…I want everyone to know
that I am supporting Barack Obama. I have, as I do every election,
followed these candidates and their campaigns and listened intently
to what they have to say. Even though I lean towards the democratic
side, I tried to sit through a Mike Huckabee speech without
wanting to mutilate myself or anyone standing around me. (Enough
about the question of evolution…can we please get our
heads out of our asses and teach empirical scientific data to
our children so that they may grow up to be scientists and engineers
and maybe, just maybe, make a considerable contribution to the
development of our species?) How can the President of the United
States (aka leader of the free world) be taken seriously if
he does not support the teaching of evolution in school. I went
to catholic school all my life. And we were taught evolution
in school in science class…then religion taught us about
the bible. And yes it was ok to have two opposing thoughts in
your head at once. Eventually you would come to resolve this
inner conflict created by your enlightened education in that
phase of our life we like to refer to as “Adulthood”.
Sorry about my rant here…I’m just really tired of
these “right-wing, holier than thou, Bible-thumpers”.
I guess I said all that to let you know that there would be
no way I would support a republican (or at least none from this
class). Mitt Romney? Please…anybody who spends 40 million
dollars to get a job should be investigated, interrogated, and
finally put in a room with no corners and never allowed to interact
with humans again. The presidency of this country should not
be for sale. Period. Mccain…I know he’s a war veteran,
and for a republican, he’s not the most conservative of
the lot. But I’m afraid with him we would get more of
the same except with someone that can actually finish a sentence.
Which leads us to the democrats…here’s a thought
that a very excited (first-time voting) eighteen year old pointed
out to me the other day…in her life she has only known
of a “Clinton” or a “Bush” in the White
House. Guess what? That is not good for business as we now see…think
NAFTA and the deregulation of the FCC. Hillary was there when
her husband signed these papers ensuring that what we see and
hear is controlled by a select few. So, I’m not one of
those liberals that thinks Bill walks on water. Quite the contrary,
I think he wronged us in many ways. And as far as Hillary is
concerned, where she lost me is in her support of the Iraq war.
When the president’s approval ratings were at an all time
high, and the country had been sold on this war, she stood right
next to the president to ensure that her place in history was
preserved. And I’m sure that her advisors told her that
they could overcome any “backlash” from this and
basically blame it on the republicans (which they have). Through
it all, but especially when it was not popular to do so, Barack
Obama opposed this war. And to me, by virtue of that alone he
deserves my vote. Imagine that…a politician putting personal
gain aside for what is right (What a concept!)
I also don’t buy that “lack of experience”
nonsense. First, there is no way to gain experience for the
presidency of the United States other than doing it. Also, what
experience did George W. have exactly? He was a failed student,
soldier, oil executive, baseball executive, governor, and finally
president of this great land. And look what he has turned us
into and how we are viewed by the rest of the world. And I know
that there are those who will still say stuff like “we’re
America, we’re the best…blah, blah…”
well guess what…we are no longer number one at anything,
except consuming and polluting. We need real change in this
country. I know that I may seem naive here thinking that Barack
can do it (I’m actually more casually optimistic). But
even if there is just a glimmer of hope then it is a step in
the right direction.
all the best,
RM
Happy
New Year!!
December 31st, 2007
Happy New Year Everybody!!!! 2007 has come and gone and the
new year is upon us. I am looking forward to what this new year
brings to us all. Every year around this time many people, myself
included, reflect about the year and ourselves in order to improve
our lives in one way or another. So we make these “resolutions”
(eat less, drink less, quit smoking… quit smoking EVERYTHING,
work out more, be a better wife, husband, son, daughter, student,
dog owner…whatever). To most of us these appear to be
rather attainable goals. But I’m sure that to some, or
maybe just me, none are! (Just kidding, sort of. Although, I
did quit smoking once.) So…in lieu of resolutions that
I’ll never keep I am going to ask for something that is
seemingly even more unattainable…a kinder, gentler world.
Although I’m going to try like hell. Ironically enough,
I write this as news of the assassination of Pakistan presidential
candidate Bennazir Bhutto hit the airwaves.
I know that at times the situation seems hopeless (you know,
the whole peace on earth thing). And perhaps on a global scale
it may very well be. However, what I am referring to is an individual,
personal effort that softens the “meanness” of our
society. For example, at your local grocery store, as you wait
in line to check out, the magazines in the stands read “So
and so has too much cellulite… or so and so is dying of
liver failure due to alcohol abuse…or so and so is just
too fat to be at the beach” and on and on…Certainly
most of us dismiss these as trite entertainment to pass the
time. Nonetheless they are there spreading their venom to unsuspecting
victims (aka general public). Do we really believe that K-Fed
is a better parent than Brittney? Also, if cameras followed
any one of us around for twenty four hours and we had no control
of the content, chances are we would do something that somebody
would not agree with. Those magazines and tabloids will always
be there (after all it is a “free” society). So
do we stop reading them? I wish. I certainly don’t read
them but to each his own. All I am saying is that we should
at least be aware of their presence and how they affect our
attitudes about ourselves and how that “meanness”
infiltrates our societal fiber.
This “meanness” that I keep referring to may very
well be instilled in us from a very young age…a kind of
“win at all cost” mentality that continues on through
adulthood. You see it on tv,radio, and print. It is apparent
in our electoral process, in our corporations, in our leadership
(and not just Bush, although they have certainly perfected this
attitude with diabolical circumstances).
I know I’ve rambled here a bit, so I thank you for sticking
with me. I am well aware that I may be completely full of hot
air. Nonetheless, my own self-importance(or the wine, I can’t
tell) keeps me from hitting the delete button. If we lived in
a kinder gentler world would atrocities still occur? Probably
so. Poverty, hunger, war would all carry on. History has not
shown otherwise. But we, as individuals, as a country, as a
people can do our part for a better, brighter, future…and
it starts within ourselves. Everybody will have their own way
of going about this. Perhaps not watching so much television
for some…reading a book…going to a museum…
or doing something creative may work for others. I did something
the other night that made my world kinder and gentler. After
the kids had gone to bed ( which of course, immediately made
my world kinder and gentler) I opened a bottle of wine and put
on a Benny Goodman LP that I had not listened to in years. Yes,
it had that wonderful scratchy noise. And yes you actually had
to get up and retrieve it from a shelf and then walk over to
the turntable and put it on…phew!! Exhausting!! Then the
first verse of “Moonglow” plays through the house
and everything is alright. For me, just knowing that a master
craftsman, albeit, a supremely talented human being, not a machine
with a microchip, is making those wonderful fluid sounds, sort
of defines, for me, the world I want to live in. And I am reminded
that at one point in our educational history we actually taught
kids to play instruments. Not only enriching their lives while
chiseling away that “meanness”, but making them
better human beings along the way. Or, at the very least try
to. (In Rockway Junior High in Miami, a public school in a very
middle-class neighborhood, we had a full orchestra with strings
and brass and woodwinds. Our teacher played every instrument
in that orchestra). And for just a moment I was taken back to
a kinder, gentler world.
Happy New Year Everybody
RM
Merry Christmas!!
December 22nd, 2007
I wanted to take a moment and wish everybody a very Merry Christmas
and a Happy New Year. In spite of personal trials and tribulations
we still managed to make it through another year on this planet.
And, if for nothing else we should at least be thankful for that.
After all, like this forum proves, we are not alone in our suffering
nor are we alone in our joy. This year, for me personally, has
been amazing, heartbreaking, incredible, exhausting, exhilirating,
trying, and whatever other word that ends with “ing”.
And, for many of you, I’m sure that this year can be described
as such. Yet, I am home for Christmas and my kids will have presents
under the tree on Christmas day.
I want to thank all of you that have attended the shows, bought
cd’s, blogged, etc…your contribution is immeasurable.
You have made me feel like a king when I have been but a pawn.
When my path was filled with doubt you set me on one filled with
hope. You have been there through and through and I cannot thank
you enough…May you have a wonderful holiday season and may
next year be even better than this year!!
Peace and love,
RM
Ho! Ho! Ho!!!
December 2nd, 2007
First, I sincerely hope that everyone is having a wonderful holiday
season. I hope everyone had a nice Thanksgiving with friends and
family. Secondly, I would like to thank everyone that have come
out (and will, hopefully) to our Christmas Party Tour this year.
The crowds have just been fantastic and we (the band with the
very talented Ephraim Owens on trumpet) have been having a ball.
My voice has been holding up fairly well, despite leaving Nashville
with almost none at all. I know I messed up a couple of songs
in Pittsburgh (so sorry). However, it wasn’t because we
were partying before the show. Besides, anybody that knows me,
knows that I don’t party before a show. Now, after the show…well,
uhum… I just made a joke (on stage) in order to not make
any excuses about my voice. Luckily, we have a couple of days
off and I get to relax at the Mohegan Sun. I know, I know…poor
me!
It has been fun getting to meet some of the forum folks and getting
to know you. You guys are the best and I thank you for all you
do in helping to spread the word. I’m looking forward to
the rest of the shows in all these great venues in all these great
cities. I’ll check back in here after a while…
Peace and love,
Raul
New York, New York…
August 9th, 2007
What a wonderful, overpopulated, over-occupied, crazy, frenetic
ball of energy that town is. I love it of course. It is like no
other. By the way, we have said it for years but it is now official…It
is actually quicker to walk ten blocks than to drive ten blocks
in Manhattan. Nonetheless every trip to Gotham is worthy of remembrance.
This one started with a visit to WFUV(Fordham University’s
wonderful radio station). I usually visit the station by myself
with my guitar. This time the band accompanied me as we had been
driving from Nashville. The station has a wonderful new studio
and its very capable staff rearranged a couple of things to make
way for the expanded lineup. I don’t mind doing these visits
by myself but if I have the band…Not to brag about my band
here, but they really have the ability to sound great under any
circumstance, regardless of equipment or situation. And of course,
they lived up to their reputation as world-class musicians. Rita
Houston was our very gracious host and we had ourselves a lovely
interview. We got to perform several songs from the new record,
we talked about the upcoming shows…mission accomplished.
During one of the breaks, I pointed out to Rita that on their
brochure/flier/ promotional pamphlet, used to promote upcoming
events, there was a very unusual photo of me. It turns out it
wasn’t even me! It was a photo of an impersonator from a
television show from the UK! I laughed my ass off at their horror.
At least the name was right, as was the time and place. Anyways
it was very funny. After years in this business, trust me, little
things like that are nothing to get mad about. Besides WFUV have
always been very supportive and it is always a pleasure to visit
with them. Now, it was time to get to W 29th St. from where we
were (Brooklyn) and enjoy some midday traffic. Luckily, Rita gave
us an alternate route to the one we received from Mapquest. It
proved to be the right move for us.
We finally made it to our hotel with just enough time for a much
needed shower and a change of clothes. We still had to make time
for a soundcheck on the boat. We unloaded the van and checked
into the hotel only to come out a few minutes later to the friendly
welcome of a $150.00 parking ticket! $150.00! How’s that
song go…”if you can make it there, you’ll make
it anywhere…” Nothing we could do about it now. Chalk
it up as another road expense. We had a boat to catch. So off
we went to the pier with midtown bumper to bumper traffic accompanying
us all the way.
After a brief soundcheck, Marty Smith (stage manager) showed us
to our dressing room for some much needed “chill”
time. Our dressing room was at the back of the boat (stern) and
on a lower deck (very glamorous). After a while somebody came
back to tell us that there was this wild crowd on board and they
were ready to rock. We immediately threw that person overboard
to fend for himself in the currents of the Hudson. (I’m
just kidding here). However we did look at him with our usual
bit of cautious optimism. Mind you, we really had no idea what
to expect. Suffice it to say what transpired on these next two
nights was really unbelievable. On the first night, the crowd
was so loud I could not hear my introduction nor could I see who
did it. (I think it was John Platt from WFUV). The second night
Claudia Marshall from FUV introduced me. As crowded as it was
on the first night, the second night was even more crowded. I
never get to be a tourist in all these great cities that I spend
time in. So when we pulled in front of the Statue of Liberty I
stopped the show so that we could just take a moment and admire.
Thank you to everyone that went on that boat. You really made
it special for us, New York.
The next morning I was off to Sirius Radio for my guest spot on
Jeremy Teppen’s Outlaw Country radio show. I had the opportunity
to use my radio voice for an “After Hours” special
which will air through August. (More details on that later). In
speaking with Jeremy, we may even turn it into a regular show
for me. (Deep radio voice) “this is Raul Malo on Sirius,
with the “After Hours” radio show”…Anyways,
it would be a heck of a lot of fun. After the taping at Sirius
I had to make my way across town to the J&R record store in
the financial district for our in- store performance. I was so
tired at this point that I don’t think I ever took my glasses
off. I wasn’t pretending to be cool I was just preventing
people from a hideous site, my bloodshot eyes. In spite of my
well worn hangover, the show went well and we got to do a little
shopping. After the in-store, we had nothing to do. Done? Finished?
What? No way. An afternoon in the greatest city in the world with
no more responsibilities? Well, guess what I did. I went back
to my hotel to my very, very cold room and went to sleep! Man
I’m old.
Next stop, Amagansett. Now, on paper this gig really does not
make a lot of sense. There are no hotels out there. (They are
always booked.) So you basically go way out of the way only to
leave after the gig. The traffic is, well, horrible. You take
about an hour to travel a mile or so. The money’s pretty
good, sure, but nothing to retire on. Yet no matter what, we always
come back. For starters, it is always a really fun gig. The crowds
are always ready to party with you and let their hair down, so
to speak. The club (Stephen Talkhouse), though at first glance
is probably nothing to look at, is one of those places that has
a vast and rich musical history. And the staff (great folks) treat
the musicians with respect and class and always find a way to
turn a difficult journey into a pleasure trip. It’s one
of those places that make you feel like you’ve been there
and in some ways I have. There was a Stephen Talkhouse on Collins
Ave. in South Beach where the Mavericks played often. (Back when
South Beach was cool and you could actually go and hear live music.)
So, I have a personal musical connection to the Talkhouse. Seeing
as how some of the folks that worked the club in South Beach have
at different times worked for the one on Long Island, it becomes
a bit of a trip down memory lane for me. I’m not one to
reminisce much, but it is nice to talk to folks from the old days.
After all, in the end all you have are memories so they may as
well be good ones.
Anyways, there is my story for that wonderful, crazy week in New
York. Thanks everyone for coming out to the shows and for spreading
the word. Take care…
Much Love,
RM
Release Week!!
August 3rd, 2007
Well, it’s finally out!! “After Hours” has just
come out and what a week it’s been. My journey started on
sunday, July 15th, with a very delayed Southwest flight out of
Nashville. For the record…I hate flying. And more importantly
I hate flying in this day and age. It is so uncivilized. You have
to take off your shoes; your shampoo has to be in a plastic bag;
old ladies have to take off their jewelry; you can’t wear
a belt; you have to take out your computer; you have to surrender
your bottled water, your perfume, and what’s left of your
dignity all to justify an annual budget of 80 billion dollars!!I
secretly wish for the airlines to all go out of business and/or
become so expensive that we as a people force our beloved and
forward-thinking leaders to develop the railroads as they have
say, in Europe and Japan. But, that’s just me…or is
it? Anyways, after many,many Heinekens I was ready for my wonderful
flying experience in the middle seat of an oversold flight. And
because it was so delayed, my plans with Ozzy (Jefferey, tour
manager) to go dine at our favorite Thai restaurant(Chandara on
Sunset and Cahuenga) were now ruined. Oh well…we opted for
option #2 which was to go to the hotel and get as much rest as
possible since I had to be up at 5:00 in the morning to make a
radio station visit to KKGO 105FM. Shawn Parr and Robin Banks
do the morning show and their energy was much appreciated and
needed, as well as Elliot Kendall’s (from Universal) who
drove me around at that ungodly hour. Well, the show went off
without a hitch. I sang a song… talked about the record…
they talked about the record. Mission accomplished!
Next, we were off to breakfast at the Urth Cafe. For some reason
this place has the best coffee on the planet. Come to think of
it, I’ve never really bothered to find out why they have
the best coffee. Partly because I don’t really care why,
but also I’m pretty sure that if somebody were to tell me,
or if I were to read it somewhere, chances are I wouldn’t
retain any of it! (Between all the songs I have to remember, people’s
names, etc.) my hardrive is pretty full. Anyways, breakfast was
delicious. My favorite part, though, was watching Elliot put one
of those anti-theft “Clubs” on the steering wheel
of his Isuzu Trooper with 230,000 miles on it. All this, in spite
of the fact that our table was on the sidewalk and we could literally
throw our eggs at the car! Too funny! Anyways, a good start to
a very busy week. After breakfast, it was back to the hotel for
a 10:00 am interview with KGSR in Austin. (More on Austin later).
Then at around 12:30 Robin (from Universal) came to pick me up
to take me to a tv taping for “Extra!” That will air
later this month we’ve been told. I was supposed to do this
interview for the last record (You’re Only Lonely) but it
was bumped because it was the day of Brittney Spears’ divorce!
You gotta love pop culture.
As musicians we have to do all these other things to get your
name out there (interviews, tv, radio, etc…). And you do
all that to get to play your songs for a couple of hours. Is it
worth it? Absolutely…we always have fun when we play. Add
in a great crowd like the one at the “El Rey” theatre
in Los Angeles, and you forget how tired you are. We played a
lot of the new record for the first time. Once we got through
those first six or seven songs we really started to loosen up.
I want to thank everyone that attended for making it a special
night for us.
Show is over. Back to reality. In bed by 2:00, up at 5:30 for
a 7:30 flight to Austin. Luckily, the very friendly lady at American
Airlines upgraded me to first class and I got to sleep a little.
(I think she felt sorry for me). Landed in Austin around 1:30.
Straight to the hotel for a shower and some lunch. I know this
sounds like a crazy schedule (and it is). But this being release
week you kind of prepare mentally for this and just accept that
you are not going to get much sleep. Plus, I knew that we would
have a lot of support in Austin. And believe me, that positive
energy from a great crowd makes it all worthwhile. So, off to
our in-store performance at Waterloo Records, truly one of the
great record stores in the world. And one of the few independents
left. When I first got there, there was nobody there. It was still
early and it was raining, and everybody kept saying not to worry…”this
is Austin”. Sure enough, in what seemed like minutes, a
line formed around the outside and there were three hundred people
there to greet us! Unbelievable! A lot of people helped us put
that show together and I thank them…John Kunz(owner of Waterloo),
Robin Kirby(from Universal) and her regional sales staff–Dale,
William, Carissa and Zulma, you’re the best.
Austin has always been one of my favorite cities and it never
fails in its support not only of my music, but the arts in general.
I love it. And after a long day of travel, and a show, etc…we
were ready for a night off. We ended up at Gueros restaurant on
Congress where the margaritas are not too sweet and the fish tacos
are actually fresh. After too many of each of those, I was ready
for bed. I must have been really tired because I actually went
to bed at a reasonable hour in a town that never allows me. (Noticed
how I blamed the city!)
Thursday, July 19th…12:00 noon on the air at KGSR. Artists
like me don’t get a lot of radio airplay. So when a station
does play my music, believe me, I appreciate it. Brian Beck was
our very gracious host. I played a song or two, talked about the
record, he talked about the record, mission accomplished. Then,
back to the hotel for a quick workout, a light lunch, and off
to soundcheck at Antone’s. Antone’s is one of the
many legendary music venues in Austin. And it’s late, great
owner, Clifford Antone, was a legendary fixture and a main ingredient
in the colorful stew of characters that somehow keeps itself replenished
in this city. His love and support of the arts and its artist
spilled out into the streets making Austin a haven for old troubadours,
bluesmen, and honky tonk heroes.
For years, legendary blues piano player “Pinetop Perkins”
resided in one of the offices of the club. I know because at our
last show he was trying to walk across the stage in the middle
of our set. At first, I didn’t know what to make of this.
I didn’t realize he was alive, much less living in the club!
Well, it didn’t take long to realize that it was actually
“Pinetop.” Soon thereafter we went into full reverence
mode. He wanted me to announce that he was selling his new cd…
in the middle of our show, mind you. What am I to do? Never mind
that I never announce that my cd’s are for sale. ( A very
counterproductive policy I might add…I’m so full of
it sometimes). Well, I’ve never been prouder to make an
announcement with commercial consequences than that night. It
was truly an honor and an experience that I’ll never forget.
Back to the show…a great crowd had assembled that thursday
night. We basically played the same set we played in LA. I’ll
leave the reviews to the reviewers. The crowd seemed happy and
that’s what counts. After a small “after” show
party, it was straight to the hotel for some much needed rest.
Wake-up call was set for 9:00 am. as I had to be at WKUT at 10:00
am. It might as well have been 6:00am. My host this morning was
John Aielli and he was very kind to me even though I sounded tired.
Nonetheless, I played a couple of songs; he mentioned the record;
mission accomplished. Then off to Magnolia Cafe for a much needed
breakfast of bacon and eggs. Meanwhile the rain kept pouring down
in monsoon-like tenacity making sleep the only real option for
the day. After all is there anything better than going to sleep
after breakfast while it storms outside? I think not.
For friday night we wanted to perform a special for the first
one hundred fans who purchased the cd at Waterloo Records. Our
friend, Steve Wortheimer (owner of the Continental) offered to
let us do this party at the Gallery (above the Continental). It
proved to be the perfect setting for a lovely intimate evening
of socializing, cocktails, and music. Out of all the sets we did
that week, this was my personal favorite. If for no other reason
that we played a bunch of songs we had never played before. Also
we were accompanied by one of Austin’s finest musicians,
Ephraim Owens, who performs regularly at the Gallery. The sound
of his trumpet reverberates in that room to create one of the
sweetest sounds on this planet. If you’re in Austin, make
sure and stop by the Gallery, especially if Ephraim is performing.
This pretty much sums up the week’s activities. It sounds
like a lot of stuff, doesn’t it? It is really difficult
to promote a record to say the least. But I feel fortunate to
have a great team and a great band that can play in any situation
and under just about any circumstance. And through it all, we
always manage to have a good time…making all that hard work
seem like no work at all. Thanks to everyone mentioned in this
article for their hard work. And a special thanks to the fans
for coming to the shows and buying the records. You’re the
ones that really make all this happen. What a week!
thanks so much
RM
P.S. next week…New York
California…
May 13th, 2007
I just got back from a fantastic visit to the West Coast. Started
the trip with a visit to the record label (New Door/Universal)to
say hi and play a couple of songs, and get to know them a little
better. Well, they couldn’t have been nicer. They are good
folks that care about music, and I felt real enthusiasm from them.
Needless to say, I think that having “After Hours”
and the “Christmas” cd on (New Door/Universal) is
going to be a big help to my career. And I’m looking forward
to working these records together with them.
This was on friday afternoon. Friday evening the guys got in and
after a nice meal we headed towards Palm Springs for the StageCoach
festival in Indio. I did not know that this was the first one
of these. It was really well run and organized. The weather cooperated
as well. We started our set and after a technical problem that
was resolved quickly by our man Ozzy, we got under way and finished
to a nice standing ovation from a very enthusiastic crowd. I hope
they do it again next year and they invite us back. After the
festival, “Sin City” records/ marketing group, threw
a great party at a beautiful house in the desert. Shila Morrow,
one of the founders of “Sin City” group, invited us
and of course, we accepted. It was nice to see old friends and
make new ones. We got to hear some great music from a couple of
new bands. One was “Dead Rock West” and the other
one was “StoneHoney”. They each had a very unique
sound. And I must admit it was nice to be entertained for a change.
They were both really great and very nice people.
The next day we had a long drive to Paso Robles. Luckily our man
Ozzy, had not participated in the “Drinking” Olympics,
as I like to call them, and off we went at noon. Pretty mellow
sunday night we had. Pizza. Beer. And the “Sopranos”/”Entourage”.
The next day we went and checked into the “Paso Robles Inn”,
which is a fantastic old hotel with lots of charm and atmosphere.
We spent a lovely day in “Paso”. After breakfast we
went for a walk. Weaver needed a guitar cable and I needed a haircut.
We found a nice little music store with some cool instruments.
I wish I could remember their name…Anyways, after Weaver
got his cable, the owner’s wife set me up with a hair salon
that they knew of personally. See, this was a monday. And apparently,
hair salons (or at least in Paso Robles) are closed on mondays.
I can’t say that I blame them. The weather alone warranted
a day off. Nonetheless, I was off to get my hair cut. I ended
up at a very nice place called the Park Avenue Salon. It is family
run and I got to meet all of them. The girl that cut my hair,
her name, I think, was Jenifer. We got to talking about music
and invited her to the show. She cut my hair in exchange for tickets.
(I definetely won on that exchange…lol) I never saw her
at the show and never got to thank her again. So if somebody from
the area ever goes to the Park Avenue Salon, please tell her I
said thank you.
After my haircut, I stopped across the street at Yanagi Sushi
for some of the most delicious fish I have ever eaten. I didn’t
even tell Weaver that I had sushi in the afternoon without him.
It would’ve ruined the show as we would have been beside
himself…lol.
Now it was time for soundcheck and eventually the show itself.
Let me just say that Maria and the “Malomamas” were
out in full force that night. Maria and the Templeton Arts Center
did a fantastic job of promoting this show. The crowd was so enthusiastic
that it made for a really great night. There are plenty of reviews
on the website so I won’t get into one. Plus it would be
kind of weird to review my own show. However, from an artist’s
perspective it was everything you could want…great gear,
great hall, and a great crowd. Oh yeah, and a great aftershow
party at the Pine Street Saloon (stumbling distance to the hotel),
all added up to a wonderful experience in Templeton/ Paso Robles.
Thank you all very much!! Also, special thanks to Chad Stephens
from “Cat Country” in San Luis Obispo for bringing
us on and for promoting our show with his “on-air”
partner Andy. By the way, Chad, nice job on “If I Can Dream”
at the Pine Street Saloon!!
Next we were off to see our old friends at the “Crystal
Palace” in Bakersfield. It’s always a pleasure to
play there and see old friends, Jerry and Mel. I also got to say
hello to the folks at KUZZ after soundcheck. They did a fine job
of promoting the show ensuring that we were greeted with a lovely,
and rowdy audience. Thank you again to all those that did the
road-trip from Templeton. And, neeedless to say to all the “Mamas”
and “AZDave” for making this trip very memorable.
You guys are the best!
All in all, this year is shaping up nicely. Of course, when the
record comes out we will need all the help we can get in promoting
this record. Even with the support of a great label like New Door/
Universal, promoting records is very difficult. There may come
a time when we may need your help. A lot of you ask me “what
can I do?” Don’t worry. When the time comes we will
coordinate our efforts. For now, just keep doing what you’re
doing and we’ll be just fine…Thank You!!
peace and love,
RM
Gruene Hall
April 21st, 2007
Just wanted to tell you all about our latest experience. First,
the shows were great fun as always. The crowds there really have
a good time and they did not disappoint. Everybody seemed to be
in a fantastic mood. The weather was absolutely perfect and the
moon lent us its glow every night as we sat out on the porch enjoying
the fruits of our labor.. We got in late wednesday night, after
a long drive from Nashville and checked into our cabins next door.
If you ever have a chance to stay at Gruene Mansion, do so. It’s
a lovely bed and breakfast that has some of its cabins facing
the Guadalupe River. Connie, who prepares the breakfasts, is a
gem of a lady who took care of some very hung-over musicians.
Thank you Connie! Que Dios te bendiga! Christy was also very helpful
with whatever we needed as was the rest of the staff. It’s
a very special place and luckily there are people still committed
to keeping places like this alive. There are great restaurants
everywhere (The Gristmill), specialty shops like Grandmother Moons
Magical Emporium, owned by a very sweet lady named Carolyn Sue
Arent. Also visit Gruene Coffee House owned by a fellow musician
named Jack. Great coffee with live music and he plays vinyl records…very
cool place.
Now, just chilling in Austin at the hotel. We play at midnight
tonight so I am trying to save my energy. Will let you all know
how it went. Peace and love, RM
Washington…
February 27th, 2007
Well, got back last night after a very long 16 hour day. Luckily
we flew back through Dallas and avoided Chicago and their huge
mess. First, thank you to everyone who came out to the shows this
weekend…SOLD OUT!! First time as a solo artist in the area,
and what can I say? The Triple Door is a fantastic venue with
a great staff that go out of their way to accomodate the artist(s).
A little note to Joe’s Pub (perhaps someone should visit
the Triple Door, or any number of venues throughout the country
and see how to treat an artist properly!! Especially one that
has sold it out everytime they’ve played there!) Love New
York…HATE Joe’s Pub!! Fortunately, the fans in the
New York area have always been very enthusiastic and supportive.
And as always, the crowds at Joe’s were fantastic and a
good time was had by all! Anyways, back to Seattle…After
A great night at the Triple Door, we drove over to Moses Lake.
What a drive! Pretty hazardous conditions, but we made it. The
Wallenstein Theatre is a converted movie house that actually sounds
wonderful. We had a fantastic crowd that braved the weather and
made us feel like a million bucks. Again, thanks to Rich Victor
and everybody else who had something to do with us being there.
Hope to come back when it’s not so cold!!
This year has started out in a fantastic way. I just signed my
new deal with New Door/Universal. We are getting ready to release
the “After Hours” record. We just shot photos for
the album cover. (Ironically enough, at Joe’s Pub…lol.
Of course, we are not using any of them. All they did was hurry
us up and act like we were always in the way. Hard to get a good
picture when you’re getting yelled at!) Alright, no more
bitching about that place. We did the Don Imus show that week
as well. Right away, You’re Only Lonely jumped into the
iTunes top ten!! Thank you Don! And before our New York trip,
we were in Texas. In Houston we played my buddy Jason Lewis’
place, called Warehouse Live! Great venue, and of course they
treated us right. After all we are family! By the way, Rockin’
Robin Guitars in Houston is a fantastic place for musical instruments.
I bought a ‘66 Blackface Fender Super Reverb that I cannot
wait to play my old Jaguar through. And I also bought a Theremin.
(I’m not going to bother to explain what it is. It is the
strangest instrument ever! And they sell them there!! Big points
in my book.) However, we did have to drive to Austin after the
show because we could not find a hotel. Hard to believe, but true
nonetheless. So we had to stay an extra night in Austin…Aaaaw!
Poor Us! Well, Austin, everybody knows is one of my favorite places
on the planet. The fact that they keep all the major chains out
of South Congress is a monumental achievement worthy of recognition
and emulation. Ahh, privately owned businesses…what a concept!
LA Zona Rosa is a great venue to play…thanks for having
us. Of course, Steve and Celeste and everybody else at the Continental
make that place a treasure. Check it out when you’re in
town. Then, off we went to Abilene to play one of the most beautiful
theatres in the country, the Paramount. Great venue, great crowd…thanks
for having us!
Well, we will be out this year, Jay, Robert, Tom, and myself promoting
the new album. I hope we get to see most, if not all, of you at
one show or another. Again, thank you to everyone who has bought
a ticket or a cd or has somehow helped spread the word about our
music…you’re the best!
peace and love,
RM
Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
December 24th, 2006
I want to wish every one of you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy
New Year. It has been a year filled with challenges, rewards,
great moments, sad moments…I would not have it any other
way. I have many things to be thankful for. And You (the fans)
are at the top of my list. You make it all worthwhile for the
band and myself. You all have spent your hard-earned money on
coming to see us, on buying records, etc…Thank You. May
your holidays be filled with joy and merriment (specially merriment)!
May all your wishes come true in this New Year. So from Robert,
Tom, Jay, and myself…Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Go Vote!!
November 2nd, 2006
Hello there everyone, It’s been a while since I’ve
posted here and I am sorry about that. I hope everyone had a safe
and fun Halloween. We did, thankfully. And, of course, with three
boys, it is quite an event in my house. Gone are the days when
the same costume would do for all three. (One year they were all
Spiderman). But it seems that they’ve developed this thing
called “personality”and so we had Max(youngest) as
“Wolverine”; Victor(middle) was “Nacho Libre”;
and Dino(oldest) was “Scarface”. Yes, Scarface…and
he hasn’t even seen the movie!! I thought, for sure, the
nuns at his school were going to tell me what a horrible, irresponsible,
negligent parent I am…LOL. Well, they didn’t thankfully.
(at least not for the “Scarface” thing, lol).
Autumn is in full bloom in Tennessee and it is lovely here right
now. Of course, that splendor is coupled with election time which
somehow manages to bring out some of the worst traits in human
beings I have ever witnessed. Here, in Tennessee, we have one
of the most vicious senate races in all the land between Harold
Ford Jr.(D) and Bob Corker(R). The poison hurled at each other
should shame us all. However, I know that this behavior is not
indigenous to the “Volunteer” State. Every night on
the news, and on the airwaves we watch as our glorious republic
withers away to nary a reflection of its old self. I know that
this doesn’t sound like a big cheer to “let’s
go vote”. Part of me wishes that our useless, spineless,
cowardly congress, would go spread their “democratic”
values in places like Darfur and Fallujah! And I mean literally
drop them all off for four years, or so, and see how the “natives”(no
racial slurr intended) take to their kind of “democracy”!
Let them feel what it is like to actually get shot at. Let them
see the faces of the kids they continue to put in harm’s
way for the almighty dollar. Let them meet the families of the
2800 killed in action… not to mention the 10’s of
thousands of Iraqis that have perished. I am not writing this
as a liberal or a conservative. I AM a fed up AMERICAN, who has
grown tired of the way things are. Never in our history, has the
“corporation” wielded such a heavy stick. Everything
is for sale…from our tallest skyscrapers, to our ports,
and now to the one device whose sole purpose is to ensure our
republic endures…the voting machine. Apparently our voting
machines are owned and manufactured by a Venezuelan company!!
Never in our history have our universities and high schools graduated
less students. Never in our history have we ranked below other
countries in research and development, or in infant mortality
rates, or…you get the picture. So, how do we change things?
Well we can try by voting next week. BUT, I don’t mean the
kind of usual “stick to your party” votes and then
go on about our business as our schools continue to disintegrate
along with our civil rights (Habeas Corpus), and our national
security. I mean, vote for who YOU really think may do some good
and then hold them accountable throughout their term. If they
don’t do what they said they were going to do…OUT!
Do NOT allow these people to act as if it is their right to be
in congress. It is not their right, it is their priviledge and
they need a big reminder next week!!
Thank You and God Bless,
RM
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